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A joyful noise

Happy Monday, my friends–better yet, Happy Martin Luther King, Jr. day!

If you don’t live in the US of A, no worries. You’re really not missing much. A few lucky souls get an extra day off; there may be a rally or two. But other than that, it’s a holiday that never really seems to get off the ground. 

Personally, I think it’s the perfect time to see how far we’ve come–and how far we’ve yet to go. The key is to keep moving forward. To keep fighting for what is right. To keep dreaming for that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, ‘Free at last! Free at last! Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!’

Of course, that last bit is not as easy as we might hope, now is it? We’ve only to watch the news, take in the latest goings on in the world to realize the fight continues. After all, there will always be bullies. And bullies make it hard to persevere. But persevere we must. For just when the fight seems uphill, and the numbers seem against us, that’s precisely when we must hold fast–when we must stand for what is right, put our hands toward change, and be the voice for those who have none.  

It’s not for the faint of heart, mind you. Thankfully, we need only do our part; the final outcome does not belong to us. That, alone, should give us joy for the work yet to be done . . . 

 

Close only counts in horseshoes

Last Friday night a firetruck, lights a blazing, turned down our street. We have neighbors across the way who battle serious health issues–I thought it might be for them. But when I peeked out the front window, I couldn’t see the truck; I could, however, see the lights reflecting in the windows across the street. They were definitely on our side of the street. They were definitely close.

I tried to talk myself into thinking perhaps they just preferred parking on this side. Perhaps it was simply a small fire, easily extinguished. Perhaps it was a false alarm. But even as I rationalized, I kept saying, “I hope it’s not at Dennis’ . . . I hope it’s not at Dennis’‘”

Deep inside, I think I knew. I just didn’t want to admit it . . . even when cars kept stopping off at their house . . . when people came bearing food . . . when Monday came and went, and Dennis’ truck never left the driveway.

It was Tuesday before I worked up the nerve to look at obits. Dennis was there. He was 51.

And the tears keep a fallin’. For Dennis was more than our favorite neighbor; he was the neighborhood patriarch. He knew everyone, right down to the woman who delivers our mail. He knew because he made a point to know. You could always hear him out catching up with one person or another. A quiet man, he was not–and he was all the louder when he really got into a conversation. There goes Dennis, we’d say, which always made us giggle.

Then there was spring. We knew spring had officially arrived with the first ting of horseshoes. A landscaper, he created the most magical backyard; complete with a Koi-filled pond, moss covered rocks, shade trees . . . and a small horseshoe pit–the sound of which echoed throughout the warmer months, as natural as the singing of the birds.

I can only imagine the hole he leaves close friends and family. If he loved people on whole, he loved certain people all the more–I can still see their faces, papering the back wall of his workshop. But he’ll leave a hole for the rest of us, too. And that, my friends, says a lot.

Now he leaves us to pick up the slack. To take the time to get to know. At the very least, to say hello. Not just in this neighborhood, but life in general. After all, we have but one life to do our best. And close only counts in horseshoes . . .

To our health

1928 was not a good year for the US House and Senate–members were dropping like flies. They buried twenty members that year alone; stress, it seemed, played the better hand. Come December, when the House found two members collapsed from exhaustion and another dead, they decided enough was enough. So they passed a resolution directing the secretary of the navy to assign an on-site medical officer during session. Not to be outdone (after all, they cared for their members, too!), the Senate followed suit the following spring.

So it was George W. Calver became the first physician appointed; and the Office of Attending Physician was born. For thirty-five years Calver worked to improve the health of members of the U.S. Congress. This included his 1951 “10 Commandments of Health,” which he posted on placards throughout the Capitol. Lest they forget, he also had them printed on wallet-sized cards with the following post script: Give 5% of your time to keeping well. You won’t have to give 100% getting over being sick.

Not bad advice . . . especially for those of us who cannot afford our own private physician, on-hand, at a moment’s notice . . .

Oh, and don’t forget to check out this archived article {United Press Writer Says Capitol Medic Is All Wet; He Gets A Cold In Senate And Discovers That Handkerchiefs Are Scarce} from the Lubbock (Texas) Morning Avalanche, Friday, February 18, 1945. It’s especially poignant if you’re tired of hearing politicians spout off, you’ve managed to pick up this wretched bug that’s been going around, or you’re living with a “man-cold.” You are not alone, my friends.

Cheers!

Roll out the barrels

In the interest of stating the obvious, it’s Monday. It’s Monday, October 24th, to be precise–which just so happens to be the date Anna Edson Taylor became the first to go over Niagara Falls in a wooden barrel and live to tell the tale. She was sixty-three years of age. Sixty-three, people!

And oh what adventures those years held–not always the best, mind you.

She was born to an affluent family; when her father died, in her twelfth year, he left the family enough money to continue their comfortable lifestyle. An avid reader, she went on to become a teacher. She married. They had a son, who died shortly after birth. Then her husband died–leaving her a Civil War widow after a mere seven years of marriage. She continued teaching, but soon discovered she wanted something more. She became a dance instructor. She opened a dance studio. Becoming something of a gypsy, she settled here and there. And she always lived beyond her means.

So it was, at the dawn of her sixties, she decided she needed to do something drastic–something that would draw attention, make her famous, and bring in a small fortune to cushion her twilight years.

Today, she would simply star in her own reality TV series. Back then, she used what money she had left to build a custom barrel, in which to sail the Niagara. She lived, of course–a bit worse for wear, but walking all the same. And she did earn fame; she was wildly requested in Vaudeville. But she refused to step foot on the stage, considering it much too vulgar. Unfortunately, the high-class audiences she sought, felt a woman who would go over the falls in a barrel much too vulgar. So, she contented herself with the occasional appearance, posing for photos with her barrel {and, occasionally, the kitten who tested it out} . . . until her manager stole her barrel and hired a beautiful,  young woman to impersonate her.

Low point, for certain.

By now you may be wondering what I’m smoking, over here. It’s Monday, for crying out loud! According to the unspoken rule of blogging etiquette, I should be posting photos of cute pups and inspirational verbiage. Instead I’m telling the most melancholy tale.

But here’s the thing: yes, Anna Edson Taylor was a woman who spent, more than she earned; she flitted about, rather than sticking to one thing; she hired a manager who was wily, at best. But she also got up, when she was down. When one thing didn’t work, she tried another. She used her mind to accomplish a historic “first.”  And she did, eventually, earn the fame she originally sought . . . today there are stories, poems, and songs penned in her honor.  I dare say she could have accomplished all she set out to do, if she had but thought it through a bit more, and surrounded herself with the right people. 

So yes, it’s something of a cautionary tale, on  a Monday . . . a fresh start, to a new week . . . a week that will soon lead into a new month, and before we know it, a new year.

Let’s make good decisions, shall we?

Giving your all

I’m a little sad to see Tax season go. Not the codes or paperwork, mind you–certainly not the money. But I will miss a certain marketer for a tax preparation service. From the first of the year, they hire this gentleman to dress as Uncle Sam and wave a sign at the corner of a busy intersection. He’s had the gig for several years now; and he’s faithful in his work. You’ll find him there day after day, rain or shine, wind or sleet.

And without fail, his wee pups is nearby.

A tiny black mutt, he’s easily missed if you aren’t looking–all the more so if he happens to be sitting near his dad’s backpack. On cold days he sports a little bomber jacket; on windy days, he sits as close to the electrical box as he possibly can. Sunny days are his favorite. Those are the days he lounges in the cool grass, paws crossed, face to the sun.  Occasionally, he’ll get up to greet a passerby, to stretch, or meander over to sit on the warm pavement, next to dad.

He loves his job.

Walking in to work, or walking back home, he nearly skips. You can almost see the smile on his face; and you can’t help but smile in return.

The drive to Walgreens, Barnes and Noble, Target, the mall–they just won’t be the same. I’m gonna miss that pups.

He’s the perfect reminder that even if the situation isn’t perfect, we’re blessed with work … that there’s a lot to be said for faithfulness … that drudgery isn’t quite so much when we’re with someone we love.

Now that another season  has come to an end, I hope that gentleman and his faithful sidekick have a new adventure lined up. And I hope, hope, hope to see them again next year …